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2023-09-29 09:21 pm
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The Nonprofit Internet and Its Charms

Somehow I never quite seem to get around to posting here again, as I always say I will.  

But the intense ubiquity of ads literally everywhere else might be what brings me back. (And, relatedly, I should get round to chucking a few dollars at DW out of appreciation for that).

It's just so...soothing...to come on here and literally just read posts in order from people I want to follow, without being Marketed To at all (except perhaps a tiny bit when people I've freely chosen to follow sell things).

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2022-01-13 10:56 am

What I’m Reading Wednesday (onna Thursday)

 Have decided to do What I’m Reading Wednesday in hopes of a.) posting more on DW b.) possibly finishing more things than I did in 2021?

Right now I’m listening (from Hoopla) to Good Food, Bad Diet by dietician Abby Langer. On the one hand, I’m perpetually kind of annoyed by the people who try to have it both ways by being anti-diet culture without fully embracing Health At Every Size, on the other hand I’m still looking for the unicorn book that will tell me useful things about how to balance carbs, fats, proteins, and other nutrients across a day or a week for maximum energy, satisfaction and enjoyment without a lot of guff about weight loss, and I still hold out hope that this MIGHT be that book somewhat? 


If anyone knows of such a book, please feel free to rec it below!

ETA: This also has a lot of stuff about understanding one’s relationship with food, which is fine in its place but not really what I need, as I feel pretty good about my relationship with food at this point and never really had issues with disordered eating. I had to process some stuff about food messaging +  the years of my childhood when my family didn’t have much $$ but I have a solid handle on that by now.

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2021-10-22 10:25 pm

Dear Yuletide Writer

Hi Yulewriter!

So, round about sign-ups time, my aged Chromebook decided it didn’t recognize the house WiFi, the result of which is that I’m pecking this out on my phone. This is probably going to be sort of brief compared to my usual letters as a result ;)
ETA: Or…possibly not! (Especially since I keep adding to it) 


Thanks so much for writing me a thing! I’m super excited and I want you to have fun writing, so take what works for you from these notes. I’m going to try to keep these somewhat non-spoilers since I don’t know how to cut tag on mobile.

October Daye series—Seanan McGuire

While I’m very fond of Toby and her whole deal, when it comes to fic I’m all about the rich tapestry of side characters, though Toby can certainly show and be her delightful, somewhat bloodstained self. Like most of my requests, this is an ANY of these characters rather than ALL of these characters request, though if you have an awesome idea for all of them, go for it!

DNW: intense body horror (yes I am aware that canon is full of intense maiming and I read it _despite_ that)


Karen Brown—she has such strong middle child energy; I love that she’s a quiet person who doesn’t see herself as super brave, but who nonetheless shows up and does what she can. Prompts: Karen-centric Brown family feels—how are they dealing with the aftermath of An Artificial Night? More about how Karen interacts with her oneiromancy? A missing scene from the whole plot with her and Eira and the Luideag? What’s it like being one of the youngest of the Fae Teen Sleepover Friends? Do she and Poppy have any adventures together as the Luidaeg’s quasi-apprentices?

Poppy—I love her optimism, fierceness, and forward-looking approach to life, and I can’t imagine the chaos that could ensue if she and May ever hung out (but I’d enjoy reading about it) What does she miss about her old life and love about her new one? What’s living with the Luidaeg like? Does she ever talk to Patrick & Simon?

Rayseline—she’s experienced a lot of trauma (and, y’know caused a significant amount herself). I really just want a deeper dive into her whole deal and what it’s like to try grow beyond her past. I’d especially love some futurefic set at least partially during her upcoming year of service with Toby. I feel like that premise is also ripe for some humor amidst the serious stuff. Bonus points if August is there too! I’m up for anything with those 2, from awkward coexistence to unadulterated loathing to shipping. ;)

Danny—I just love him, okay! I’d love just like, slice of life stuff, bridge troll lore, how the Bargest rescue is going, San Francisco fae cab driver lore, Danny’s POV on his history with Toby (And what was the favor she did for his sister that made him so committed to her?) Bonus points for Danny and Raysel hanging out at some point; I just think they’d bounce off each other in an Uptown Girl/Downtown Guy kind of way.

I’m totally game for additional members of Toby’s motley crew to show up!

Wayfarers Series—Becky Chambers 

I love this sprawling galaxy full of sentients, which is part of why I selected Worldbuilding as one my options. This is also an ANY rather than an ALL request, so please feel free to play in other aspects besides the ones I mentioned directly. I almost selected Any Character but I know writers often appreciate a starting point.

 Roveg is the Cultural Rebel Spacebug Dad of my heart and I’d love more, either after the end of book 4, or exploring his past. Speaker’s anger and quest for justice were really compelling, as well the moment of joy when she and her sister first experience the joy of a sim made for them. Because of their lifespans, I totally get that there might be some bittersweetness in telling her story. Ashby connects so many of the threads of these stories but we don’t actually see him as the main focus too often, so I’d love to see more about what makes him who he is.

If you focus on Worldbuilding, there are SO many options—deep dives into any of the alien cultures, exploring the Exodans, WTF happened with Pepper & Blue’s planet of origin, what’s Earth’s deal? 

Books of the Raksura—Martha Wells
This is also an ANY request rather than an ALL request.

I’d really like to see more of like, the everyday ways of Raksura culture when they’re NOT dealing with potentially world-ending threats; I picked Moon, Jade, and Chime because they’re each fascinating, individually and together and I want to see them making it work. I’d actually love kidfic in this ‘verse—maybe interacting with their first clutch and/or the fosterlings?

There wasn’t room to choose her and still have the whole trio + worldbuilding, but I’m really interested in Pearl too, and her difficult journey to heal and also come to terms with some of the bad decisions she made when she was in a bad place. I also love Ember, Stone, Shade, Consolation and Malachite and would love to have any of them show up, especially if you get into Raksura politics +  alliances.




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2021-08-23 12:38 pm
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A New Old TV Discovery

So, I got Paramount + in order to watch Lower Decks with the person I watch Star Treks with, and idly started watching the pilot of the original Beauty and the Beast series, and whoops, looks like I’m about to have a lot of feelings about a show that started airing when I was 8, and possibly a new Yuletide fandom. 

Also, I’m wondering if there’s like a secret stash of Early Internet fic for this show somewhere? I feel like there must be, but maybe it’s just early enough that there isn’t/wasn’t. 

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2021-05-27 10:17 pm

Thurday Thoughts (Random)

I've discovered that one of my local coffeeshops (Compass, for local folks) sells simple syrups; I want to buy the turmeric or the cherry but $12 seems like kind of a lot.

Thursday is my day off right now when I have to work Saturdays--my library restarted Saturday service at the beginning of the month after having been M-F for most of the pandemic (once we started opening at all). I see the logic, and the community is super thrilled--but I don't have to be.

It was nice having a normal weekend personal life, even if the vast majority of it was Zoom-based.

We are re-opening For Reals on Tuesday, June 1st--as in masks required, but no time or capacity limits, full browsing. It feels really fast to me, but I'm honestly kind of numb at this point.

I went to the dentist in the morning, and the Farmer's Market in the afternoon; the latter was more enjoyable, but walking to both on a sunny but not particularly humid day was nice.
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2021-03-03 10:33 am

I Wanna Be Vaccinated...

...and on Saturday, I will be!!!
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2020-10-31 11:53 pm

Yuletide Letter Now A Real Letter (CW Nancy Drew, Wayfarers, Picard, Lower Decks, Valdemar)

Dear Yulewriter,

First of all, thank you so much for Writing Me a Thing in a small weird fandom that I love!


Sorry this took so long! It's been A Week ;) and I am still a Bear of Very Little Brain so this is mostly going to be a rehash of my Optional Details What Are Optional and my DNWs, with maybe some fandom promo and general burbling thrown in...

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2020-09-21 08:47 pm

We Don't Measure The Blood We've Drawn Anymore

Bruce Springsteen's album Magic, which came out in the early 2000s, feels uncannily, disturbingly relevant in 2020, from "Radio Nowhere" to "You'll Be Coming Down" to "Last to Die."

Especially that last one. I don't know if there are any fanvidders out there who have considered turning their skills to politics, but "Last to Die" would work really well for that, and I doubt Bruce would mind.

Frank Turner's _Be More Kind_, also currently in heavy rotation at Casita de la Bookwench, has several tracks that would do well too, notably "1933," "Little Changes," "Get Better," and "Brave Face,"

I texted [personal profile] likeadeuce on Friday night after I blithely went on social media right before bed and got slapped with the RBG news that "put on your brave face honey and get ready for the end of the world" had never felt more accurate.

The one I catch myself humming along to as I bike commute, though, is "We can get better/because we're not dead yet."
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2020-08-16 10:20 pm
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Update on My Friend L.

She thankfully has had a mild case, without major side effects.

However, over a month after she first got sick, she's still struggling with fatigue and sometimes still gets fevers.

I'm so thankful that it wasn't worse, and at the same time feel bad for her and frustrated on her behalf, as she is stuck in the frustrating limbo of having used up all the "official COVID leave" yet she can't go back to work, so she's having to burn through all her regular leave.
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2020-07-13 04:11 pm

Now It's Fucking Personal .

A friend of mine--who crossed the invisible barrier awhile back from work-friend to friend-friend--just tested positive for COVID.

Yes, she's young and healthy, but we all know that's no guarantee; and I'm extra concerned because she lives alone and doesn't have a car, though her sister and brother-in-law also live in the area.

I'm honestly shocked because I know her to be very safety-conscious.

The only remotely high risk things she's done have been go to work (at the library, which recently started letting people back in the buildings on a limited basis), take the Metro to and from work (and she specifically asked to switch branches so her commute would be shorter), and go to the grocery store or occasionally Home Depot, and she always wore her mask.
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2020-05-13 06:22 pm

Day 58 (?) of Physical Distancing Thoughts

Soooo....I haven't posted in awhile ;).

I look back at my day 10 post, and the precautions that I found so onerous and hard to get used to before, now just seem normal.

I own several masks and feel like something of a mask connoisseur--if anyone needs ordering recs I am happy to supply them. I have a mini-trash can in the foyer for depositing them when I first come inside, and an established cleaning routine for when I enter the house from outside. My handwashing song is still "Barrett's Privateers" by Stan Rogers most of the time, and I hope that COVID-19 won't have ruined it for me.

My main concerns are that I will get complacent and slip up, especially when I have to go back to working from not-home and don't have as much time. This isn't going to happen for a while, fortunately, as the local government which governs my employment just announced a pushed-back reopen date of June 8th. All to the good as far as I'm concerned.

My emotions are a whole other post that I don't know that I actually want to make; the touch starvation, especially, has been super real lately. I worry about family members who live in a less-cautious Red state, and I myself have had a couple of thankfully non-virus-related health scares, the most concerning of which is the two tooth extractions I have to have (well, I've done one now) because of failed root canals. Super fun times!

On the other hand, I find myself much more aware of the shifts in the season as I go on my almost daily walks--what's done blooming, what's just starting, which birds are hanging out. I take a lot of pictures of flowers, and I have learned that bluejays are awful teases, because they will get into such photogenic poses and then immediately fly off once I reach for my phone. Today I saw a fox trot right across a neighborhood street in the middle of the day!
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2020-03-24 10:14 am

Day 10 of Social Distancing Thoughts (adapted from Tumblr)

Been reading my circle's update posts and wanting to add one of my own ;)

This is adapted from a couple of my recent Tumblr text posts, so apologies to anyone who follows me there--

A thing I'm really struggling with:

The constant, intense, detail-oriented meticulous CAREFULNESS about EVERYTHING that dealing with this pandemic requires does not come naturally to me at ALL and quite frankly it is stressing me out.

A small thing that's really comforting to me right now: a few weeks ago I downloaded the app for a search engine called Ecosia onto my phone; I think I heard about it here on Tumblr. Their revenue model involves using ad revenue to plant trees, and from everything I can tell they fund local organizations so it’s not a case of Westerners parachuting in and thinking They Know Best. Anyway, it takes about 45 searches to fund a tree, and I was _ridiculously_ happy this morning when I opened the app to look up something and it said I’d done 91 searches, which means I’ve planted my 2nd tree :)
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2020-01-12 10:04 pm
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Spending Break Updates

So, I made it... about a week before dashing into a Starbucks. It was yesterday, and even though it was the weekend I had to be up pretty early to make it to my InterPlay (dance/storytelling/improv thing) workshop, since it started at 9:45 in Takoma, completely the other side of the city.

And I didn't have any breakfast food in the house. So I stopped in at Starbucks for a coffee and some cream cheese stuffed mini bagels, as well as a cheese and fruit plate to have for lunch.

And, on the way back after InterPlay, I was definitely going by the letter rather than the spirit of my rules, because while I haven't eaten at the Nando's in Rosslyn, I have been to a Nando's before and since it's a chain, the menu is the same.

A few years ago, I probably would have seen this as a reason to give up on the whole thing, but thankfully I'm less of a perfectionist now; I think I may officially have become a good-enoughist.

For reasons that don't need exploring at this juncture but which weren't directly related tothe spending break, I've been paying for stuff with cash all week. I have concluded from this that the personal finance expert-y types are corrrect that paying for things with cash feels more real than plastic. However, I've always had 2 major problems with it--carrying any significant amount of cash makes me nervous, and with cards, i have at least a general idea of where my money went even without saving receipts (which I always think I'll do, but then i just randomly find them much later and throw them out). But I had idea today for a fix for problem #2--I could try taking pictures of receipts on my phone
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2020-01-06 12:31 am

One Thing Makes a Post--Spending Break

This is not at all meant to be a New Year/self-improvement-y sort of thing--well, alright it is a self-improvement-y sort of thing, but it is mere coincidence that I happen to be starting in January.

I started thinking about this in mid-November, after listening to The Year of Less by Cait Flanders on audio, and by the time I was actually ready to do it, it was, well, early January.

How this is going to work is: for the next 30 days, I'm not going to buy any new things, and I'm not going to get takeout, delivery, or takeout coffee. I recognize that there's a bit of privilege in even being able to do this, but I want to try to disrupt my unthinking spending habits, with the ultimate goals of:

a.) paying off credit card debt (I've got *gulp* about about 20K all told)
b.) saving
c.) donating more to causes I care about
d.) doing longer term cool things (travel? grad school?)

I also wanted this to be realistic and something I could actually do, so here's what I'm _not_ doing/giving up:

1.) Streaming services--I actually already cancelled Hulu w/HBO, because I can get most of the movies through the library, and I'm not that into their original series tbh. But Netflix + 2 DVDs a month is definitely staying, and Disney Plus is a maybe. CBS i honestly forgot i was paying for and want to cancel, but since they already charged me I guess I'll wait and see how Picard is. Amazon Prime I will probably renew when my membership comes due in February, because I don't have the mental energy to try to replace all the different things that Amazon does right now.

2.) Grocery economizing. I'm not going to try harder to stick to a list, or vow to make my own lunch and not buy Trader Joe's Meals-Inna-Box; I know the limits of what I can take on at one time.

3.) Experiences/Travel--my overall broke-ness will probably limit this anyway, but I can buy experiences. Dining out counts if it's part of seeing friends, or if I'm exploring solo and go to a place I haven't tried before. What I want to do is get out of the _habit_ of stopping for something because cooking feels like Too Much.

4.) Gifts. My oldest nephew turns 5 this month. I'm buying him a nice fucking present, the end.

5.) Health-related items. Not just prescribed medications and copays, which will get paid for from my FSA mostly, but like, my podiatrist wants me to buy a certain type of shoe, so I probably will eventually. If I start biking again, I'm gonna need a helmet, etc.

I'm not sure how much I'll even be able to do of the bigger things, because tbh I have adjusted Really Not Well to paying almost $400 more in rent every month, in terms of living w/in my means. I needed a change and in a lot of ways it was worth it, for quiet and central air and elevators and a non-asshole landlord, it's just...a lot, and of course moving itself was a major expense. But I've been living here almost 6 months now, and I really need to adjust.
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2018-12-08 06:43 pm

*taps mic* hey, is this thing on?

Hello DW!

While I’m not abandoning Tumblr, I’d like to try to be a bit more active over here. What always seems to stop me is feeling like I “should” write long-form diary-style posts and then not having the energy for it or feeling like I have “enough” to say. And then when a new fandom grabbed me and I suddenly wanted to write meta, I went over to Tumblr because I wanted to talk to people who were also in that fandom, and that’s where they were. But I’ve missed DW-style internet culture, and I’m excited that it might become a Thing again...so here I am.
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2018-07-09 12:02 am

Social Media and Its Discontents

It’s interesting to me that I feel safer writing what I’m about to write in the relatively walled garden of DW rather than in the hyper open platforms of Twitter or Tumblr.

One of the challenges of social media is gauging how or whether to respond to a post by someone you interact with sometimes but don’t really _know_. Especially if it’s somewhat conflicted/critical. In this particular situation, a mutual of mine (meaning that we follow each other) on another platform, who I generally find relatable and agreeable, was talking about her feelings of sadness and hurt because she feels like she can’t talk about intentional weight loss (which has helped her back pain) without feeling like people are going to accuse her of being a bad feminist and engaging in diet talk—and apparently some people have, it’s not a theoretical fear.

I really wanted to say, “it’s your body, everyone is different and ultimately you gotta do what’s right for you—on the other hand, given how much intentional weight loss is promoted in society as THE ONE AND ONLY TRUE WAY for fat people to be healthy, and how damaging that has been for a lot of people, maybe you shouldn’t be quite so surprised that some people have strong negative reactions.”

But I didn’t want to start a fight on someone else’s blog, especially when they were feeling vulnerable...so, I posted it here, where the person in question probably won’t see it, to try and analyze my own feelings about the whole thing...
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2011-03-11 07:41 am
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Writer's Block: I wanna be just like you

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When I was a kid, I totally wanted to grow to be either Vesper Holly or Alanna of Tortall.

Now that I'm at least theoretically an adult. I sometimes still fantasize about being Cordelia Naismith Vorkosigan when I grow up.

She's about my age in Shards of Honor, the first Vorkosigan book, so I think maybe I still have a chance.

As a librarian, I also find Barbara Gordon/Oracle rather inspiring. She saves the world with information, y'all!
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2010-11-22 09:08 am

Dear Yuletide Writer 2010

This is a placeholder for my Dear Yuletide Writer letter. I will try my very best to have it up soon!
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2010-01-31 02:11 pm

Springsteen + Fandom=Win

So I'm playing Springsteen loud in the living/dining room and doing nerdy dances on the hardwood floors, like I do (at least when my roommate isn't here) and also cooking potato pancakes (which I am probably not paying enough attention to)...

and I started pondering vids to the songs on _Born in the USA_. Now, I realize this is not exactly an original thought, as Springsteen is pretty popular in fandom, or at least in my little corner. I'm one of the more casual Springsteen fans in my fandom friends-group.

I decided that if I weren't too lazy and basically technophobic, I would totally make a Sinclair/Garibaldi vid to "Bobby Jean." It's so perfect. Shots of Babylon 4, shots of Garibaldi waking up from being shot and Sinclair's gone, shots of them being cute in season 1. ANGST LIEK WHOA.

What about "I'm On Fire?" Whatever one chose would have to be CREEPY AND DISTURBING. Although, it occurs to me that a Kara/Lee vid where Lee is clearly the girl and Kara is the narrator would be funny, as well as creepy and disturbing.

Dancing in the Dark? I was thinking of rebootverse!Kirk, but with the line about "little worlds falling apart" I think it could portray him a little unfairly--i.e. as more of an insensitive jerk than he can be at times in canon. On the other hand, maybe it would be perfect for the "Kirk provokes Spock" scene. It's funny; I wasn't immediately fannish about that movie when it came out, and I didn't really grow up with Trek (although I was a casual TNG watcher in high school) but I've been reading some really good fic for it recently.

And "My Hometown"? Perfect for a Homicide vid. Something meta about how the city's dysfunction affects all the characters.

This is a fun game! Feel free to play (with Springsteen songs or otherwise) in comments!
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2009-11-17 07:26 pm

Dear Yuletide Writer!

Dear Yuletide Writer,

First of all, I'd like to apologize for writing the world's latest Dear Yuletide Writer letter. I have computer access issues this season, I'm afraid.

First of all, write the stories that inspire you. I think I gave about the right amount of information in my details, though I apologize if they were a trifle incoherent. I was pretty ill at the time, and it was also going to be my only chance to sign up. So, if anything beyond the details would cramp your style, feel free to stop here. Otherwise, there will be a lot of babbling about these fandoms and why I love them behind the cut!

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